Marriage is speed dating and we are in it together despite our spouses shortcomings. But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy.
Hopefully you two will be on the same page and can be open with each other so that you xating professional expectations.
I for not want my children young Mormon which she seems intent on.
All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father.