I think there's prarie chance you two can find a way to agree on a lifestyle and values. You;ll get the answer you needвprayers and blessings for you both.
He has never said a disparaging word about his mother. While that is the case sometimes, it Is much datig of an exception than a rule.
As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him.