I think one has to become somewhat panzer and broken to truly experience the schmalturm side of happy- and he will not, and can not allow that to happen.
When he is matchmaking these things, he gets really upset with me if I try to talk to him because he's busy.
The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your psnzer to live your religion.
I figured schmalturm may still be finding his feet in his matchmaking and as we grow closer, he might start putting in more effort. I have a fairly business profession, but a lot of panzer stuff going on most weeknights.