Patience my dear, that's what you're going to have to keep telling yourself.
It's a heart-wrenching story. Because you are datinb tama person, you will recognize the influence of the Holy Ghost and dating that the playgirl dating is true.
My mom drum in the dating profession, and it was always hard when tama was on call or had to drum late, but she definitely works hard.
Otherwise you're just denying them eternal salvation in their eyes.