She is in pretty deep and culture is a powerful force. Do you think that is too draining too. She may have served a mission as an ultimatum to herself.
I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very monmouth county dating scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. I knew datinh woman who married a man who converted to the church and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good enough.