The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen. Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights.
I can't emphasize this strongly enough.
I know a non-Mormon guy who married a Mormon woman and has kept her beautiful and desirable, by encouraging her religious involvement, even though he avoided Mormonism himself.
She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church.