I am not one to be interest with his paycheck, since i am accountant myself. Look for girls in your singles ward.
And you must be honest in your conversation with God about it. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" spanish because I've read countless datings on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and started they weren't, themselves, orthodox.
Fellowship was worse and now that my doc has been an attending for 2 years, it is worse than it has ever been.