Understand that it's their belief, and make plans for any of the other 6 days instead.
Luckily he also wrote back really long emails and it helped us stay in touch we were doing overseas long distance-so that helped a lot.
I would suggest having a list of chores that need guy be done, and anyone can check them off.
Why would you behave any different month. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and dating untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his.