We've been together for a little over a year, after having a pretty severe break at right after the 1 year mark. He also travels an inordinate amount.
The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. Thought the girl and I had a future, and we did, just not with each other I'll bet there are hundreds of boyfriend converts out there.