The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different hook, and one that I am personally much more letra peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work traducica this life.
Not his wife and kids.
We are indeed in two different places. Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from not and act accordingly. And don't fall for all their talk of being traducida and welcoming.